mima_sthoughts

I hear most people say that they stay in abusive relationships or marriages because of their children but what they don't know is that it also affects the  children. Abuse is not only when the husband or the lady beat each other, there are different kinds of abuse for example verbal abuse. Children who grow up in abusive homes tend to have thanatophobia which is also known as the fear of losing someone you love. Sometimes all the child just wants is a night free of shouts and screams. They live in a world where they can't go out in the morning and say mummy or daddy see you in the evening because of the fear that when they come back they won't be alive. Numb, Scared and Lost is what they feel in them, the same child that you say you are staying in the marriage for is the same child child that is having nightmares and fear that his or her mother can be dead over the night. Another thing is that abusive parents raise abusive children by default.. Children who get aggressive w...

 Oh how time flies...I remember vividly when I had my first crush, I wasn't well informed about my feelings I thought I would just enter secondary school, go through the academic stage, make friends, have some vibe killers and I would graduate. In my own scenario I didn't have anyone to tell about how I was feeling which made me confide in friends that may have had use the opportunity to blackmail me emotionally. It's totally normal to have a crush unlike nowadays when people say it out loud, it wasn't so back then.  Most people develop feelings in different ways, he/she may have helped you during your tough times and that make you view them in a different perspective. You start noticing their physical features like abs, pink lips, curly hair or maybe even their personality. From that you want to see them everyday,engage in conversations with them most times. So if you notice yourself developing feelings for the opposite sex, it's totally normal what really matters ...

Have you ever gotten to that point in your life where you feel like all you see are imperfections, lies, you have lack of confidence. It's sad really, sometimes you just sit yourself down and ask who am i???,the more you think you know yourself the more you find out new discoveries about you. You see the knife but you are not brave enough to pick it up and stab yourself because deep down you don't want to give up just yet. You want to fight for yourself. They say that if you try to please everyone in this world you have gone on an impossible journey. Fine I understand that but what if you can't even find people who are pleased with you. Those tears pour out of your eyes and yet you can't stop them, sometimes you just want to scream out loud and say i give up!!!. How about when you see your parents putting so much effort into you and you are like "Am i really worth it?" What about their complaint about your physical structure, you look into the mirror a...