WHEN THE WIND BLOWS


I remember there was a time I was talking about marriage to my dad and all, his response was that I was too young to be thinking about marriage. To be honest,  the truth is, in the next few years our parents would be the ones asking us if we have a partner and all, so I find myself this days  imagining if I can truly tolerate a person's personalities, mistakes and utterances.


To me I feel being married is being reborn because when you get married you no longer make decisions on your life abruptly and all. You live with the mindset that whatsoever decision you make can affect your spouse; as ladies we must respect the fact that the husband is the head of the house and no lady is free to take that title irrespective of feminism or "what a man can do a woman can do better". 


I may be able to tolerate my husband's excesses, behaviors and choices but his family is another thing you need to put into consideration. Truly "somebody's son go find you one day" but then his mother hasn't approved of you,  his sister doesn't think you are fit to bear their name and his brother thinks you are a gold digger. 


Looking at Parenthood, Children are one of the tests given to parents in their marriage in which most parents fail. As a newly wed couple you enjoy the breakfast in bed , the eating together and all the lovey dovey, but you might be surprised when you find out that the both of you might have different opinions when it comes to training a child


Some marriages end up shattering for several reasons like one of the partners is being abusive, he or she is cheating and also a lot of people say age is just a number but it really isn't. You might get into situations where your partner's age becomes a matter of debate and it becomes a fight and all. 


There's this saying "if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen" and truly, it can be applied in some cases. Vehemently, marriage is not an experiment so you have to be mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually ready. Take your time to observe and begin to pray about your future husband now so you don't get thrown off balance when THE WIND COMES BLOWING.

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